We all need to spice up our lovemaking at one time or another. In fact, it is very important to your relationship! However, with so many lovemaking books out there, does anyone's latest edition to couples making love stand out from the crowd? Let's find out more about couples making love by CLICKING HERE.

"The 3 Paradoxes of Great Sex"

MEN These 3 mistakes in couples making love all come from the " land of good intentions " but still, they wreak merciless havoc on the lives of countless men.

I am referring to the following:

1. Trying Too Hard
2. Thinking Too Much
3. Simple Moves

THE PARADOX OF TRYING TOO HARD

Great sex will always be about FLOW & RHYTHM.

For couples making love, one does not need to press for it, trying too hard on any area will cause you to mess it up; that is a guarantee. The tragedy is that most men do not even see this one coming and end up working against themselves ­the harder they try, the harder it becomes. READ MORE....

Oral Sex Tips For Men & Women

For couples making love, if we had to give you one piece of advice to make your lovemaking perfect, it would be to learn the art of fellatio. It is true, all men love it. It feels great and actually takes a lot of trust and comfort to let somebody have their mouth down there. In short, it is an important part of lovemaking and is often the main event, read more...

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(For couples making love, we received this message from a male friend)

This was WEIRD!

She never said it, but I just knew in the back of her mind that it was affecting her deeply. And I felt bad. I mean REALLY terrible.

I just couldn't accept the fact that I couldn't satisfy my girlfriend sometimes when we made love. Actually it was a little more often than I would like to admit.

Anyway, the other day I stumbled upon a site that claimed to have the answer I was looking for. Keep in mind this was NOT about lengthening it, positions or even lovemaking techniques. And yes, to be honest, I was a little skeptical at first, but I took the plunge anyway.

Gee, was I wrong!

After reading the information on couples making love and putting it to the test, it made a big difference in the bedroom! How much? Well, let's just say that my girlfriend is a little bit more enthusiastic now :D and I am a happy man. Read more...

Top 10 Tips To Give Women An Orgasm

Couples making love did you know that women can experience different types of orgasms and can even have multiple orgasms?

It’s true! Unfortunately, many women can go years without an orgasm from their partner, and we all know how hard it is to satisfy a woman.

Here are 10 couples making love tips to increase the chances she'll reach climax, including the secret to multiple orgasms:

Start outside the bedroom- Want to increase the chances she'll orgasm? When was the last time you surprised her with a little drawing, letter or flowers and sent them to her at work? Believe it or not, creative and romantic gestures DO turn women on because love and lovemaking are interconnected in a woman’s brain. Do this and you can bet-your-bottom-dollar you'll be doing more than just eating dinner when she walks in the door! :)

Relax her- It’s very hard for women to orgasm if they are stressed. Give her a quick back massage. Rub her shoulders, upper back and neck to melt away the tension.

Ignore the vagina- Did you know that prolonged foreplay actually increases the chances of her coming? That's right. By kissing, caressing and touching her LONGER, you’ll build the sexual tension and often the anticipation will be very powerful.

Change your focus- If you focus all your attention on the woman first, you'll make love to her much more passionately. Think about it! If you've finished first and decide to help her come, you won't have the enthusiasm and passion that's needed to keep her hot and turned on.

Tip to last longer- For couples making love of course the first step to help her reach orgasm is by not coming. The best way I've found to not come is: Penetrate as normal and when you feel like you're about to come, simply move your hips in a circular motion (like swaying a hula hoop) and wait until the “little guys” subside again. Now continue pleasuring. :D

Do not use lubricants- Women have a natural lubricant that fills the vagina when they're turned on. By using a product substitute, you're only fooling yourself. Without products, you’ll instantly know if things are working; but with them, you can never be sure.

Never too much clitoris- Did you know that once you've stimulated the clitoris for some time, a little thing called the clitoral hood will actually come out and cover the clitoris to protect it from further direct stimulation? (And no, I'm not making this up!) The point is, once the clitoris is fully stimulated, make sure you pleasure the G-spot next, whether it be with your hand, tongue or penis.

Find and stimulate the G spot- The G-spot is a zone that feels like the roof of your mouth and is located about 2 inches inside the vagina on the topside. (On the underside of her stomach.) There are two basic ways you can pleasure the G. With your fingers by doing a “come here” motion or with a love position that helps hit the G-spot

Use the best position- Not all love positions are made equal. The best one for women is the reverse missionary (woman on top). This is probably the easiest position for a woman to climax because she can control the friction to her clitoris and/or G-spot.

Give her oral sex- The single best way to help a woman reach orgasm, even multiple orgasms, is by going down on her (cunnilingus). While at first I didn’t believe it, countless studies have been done to prove this fact. Oral sex is easier and much more satisfying for women than intercourse is.

Try the ABC ' s with your tongue, ask what she likes, and mix it up with lots of different movements! However be VERY careful! With over 6,000 nerve endings in the clitoris, make sure you know everything there is to know before poking your tongue around there, otherwise it could be really painful and, even worse, spoil the mood.

So there you have it 10 couples making love tips you can start using right away to give women the most earth-shattering experience of their lives. Learn to be one of the rare men who can satisfy her with oral sex.

5 Tips To Please Your Man In Bed

Want to give your man a thrilling experience like never before? Here are 5 couples making love tips on really simple ways to make your lovemaking hotter, steamier and more passionate, starting tonight!

THE BEST POSITION FOR HIS ENJOYMENT

Practically every animal species utilizes the rear-entry “ doggy-style ” position, so it is a natural one for humans to enjoy, as well. While you will not have face-to-face contact, there are many benefits. It iss great for guys because it gives them full control. This is one of the best positions for hitting her G-spot and allows him to fondle your breasts, stomach, clitoris, back, neck and other sensual spots. The main benefit for your man is that he will be able to get incredibly deep penetration (above-average guys need to be careful as deep thrusts might hit her cervix, which can be quite painful).

FIND YOUR MAN'S HIDDEN ZONES

Yes, men love to be touched sensually too. I call these hidden zones because many people don’t realize, or forget, that these areas of the body LOVE attention. While many of these zones are obvious, like the lips, groin, and inner thighs, there are also areas that, when stroked, caressed and kissed, can drive your partner wild and even intensify their orgasm. Believe it or not, the ears, neck, arms, chest and scalp are all really sensitive areas that love to be stimulated. Spend some time during foreplay caressing and touching these areas, and watch how it pleases your partner.

SET A ROMANTIC MOOD

Think men aren't romantic or wouldn’t appreciate it? Think again! Everyone loves a thoughtful and kind gesture. Of course you might think that using candles, music, incense and even rose petals to set the mood of your lovemaking is a little too cliché. But he will think differently! For couples making love, your partner will LOVE YOU for this. Just imagine how happy you would feel if someone went to all the trouble to create a special lovemaking occasion that you can cherish for years to come. Could this be so cliché because people enjoy it so much? Point made.

GIVE HIM A HAND JOB

When beginning a genital massage, start with lighter, irregular strokes ­ like teasing. As you get further and further into it, stick with two or three main strokes that your partner really enjoys. Developing a good rhythm that your partner can get into is the key to bringing your partner to orgasm with a genital massage.

PLEASE YOUR MAN WITH MORE ORAL SEX

If we had to give you one piece of advice to make your lovemaking perfect, it would be: learn the art of fellatio. It is true, all men love it. It feels great and actually takes a lot of trust and comfort to let somebody have their mouth down there. In short, it is an important part of lovemaking and is often the main event. Problem is, women often start fellatio by sucking on the penis straightaway when, actually, they should start with some playful teasing and soft touches. This will lead to a much more powerful orgasm as it heightens his anticipation. Make sure you use different techniques and your tongue, as well.

So there you have it. Five great ways to make your man more satisfied in the bedroom. While they’re all great, I would recommend putting most of your energy and time into learning fellatio, simply because men crave it so much and the loving smile and kisses you will probably get in return are definitely worth it. Learn to be one of the rare women who can satisfy him with oral sex.

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