LOVE ADVICE FOR A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP
Do you need love advice on how to maintain a healthy relationship?
Are you two love birds always fighting or are you two still in the "in love" phase? What's the big secret to a happy, fulfilling, & long-lasting relationship? It seems like perfect relationships and marriages are nowhere to be seen. The divorce rate is so high, a lot of marriages fail before the three-year mark. Well, I found a solution! While blogging on another relationship advice column, I talked to a guy who said that he has NEVER had a fight with his wife of 17 years. While this sounds impossible, after I read his story I was pleasantly surprised by how his powerful understanding of relationships can help me rejuvenate mine to the level it deserves. Below, are a few tips to help you preserve and maintain a healthy relationship:
Time and time again, people tell me that they cannot find time to be romantic because there are not enough hours in the day. Their time is consumed my work, school, family, cleaning, running errands, you name it! I have the same amount of time given to me each day as everyone else does. It's how I prioritize the time that might be different. Besides my relationship with my Creator, my time spent with my honey is most important to me. Even if you only have 15 minutes of free time to spare; a quick massage, cuddle, game of cards etc. will do a whole lot of justice in your relationship. Remember, it is the LITTLE things that mean so much to your loved one. 
Love Advice Tip #2 - Have Date Nights
Without special time together, relationships can pull apart or simply become stale. However, you can't simply replace doing nothing with doing the exact same thing week after week. The very predictable dinner and a movie can be alright if mixed up with some other types of dates. Here are a few suggestions: go to a bookstore or library and read together, visit a museum, zoo or park, or get together and collect clothes for a shelter, or set up a little work-out time at your local gym. Anything that will allow you two to have a one on one.
Love Advice Tip #3 - Get Your Debt Under Control
If you want to have a blissful relationship, you will need to get your debt under control (or at least a plan to do so). Otherwise, your debt will control you and affect you physically and psychologically.
When you get a paycheck, the first thing you should do is set aside money for charity/church. It may not seem logical, but it works. Sit down with your partner and discuss all aspects of your family budget. Once you analyze your spending habits you fully realize where you are wasting money. It is a great opportunity to talk about your goals and dreams with each other. Realize that frivolously spending money can be a sign of disrespect for your marriage and/or mate.
Do not live beyond your means! If you would like a bigger diamond ring or a fancier car, ask yourself why. Take a quick inventory of all the items you own but could really live without. Consider how much you paid for them. What if you didn't buy those items and had all that money in a savings account instead? Would it make a difference in how you view your job, your family and your future?
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